I was a pasty game-less nerd with no friends and absolutely no women chasing me around.
Women didn’t even want to talk to me.
I sent out all the wrong signals.
I didn’t realize it at the time, but I was putting out a vibe that totally pushed people away, whether they were potential dates or friends.
I was unconsciously telling everyone around me that I was weak, boring, and not a person of value.
And I had no idea that I was doing it.
I just knew that it was really hard to talk to women. Sometimes it felt impossible.
I started to think that there was something wrong with me, that I could never have successful dates with interesting people or do well in social situations.
I thought that I might have to settle for a boring life with boring relationships.
And I almost gave up.
But then one day I stumbled upon the most valuable secret that I have ever learned in my life.
I saw a bunch of average looking guys, some even less attractive than me, talking to women and going on dates like it was nothing.
And everyone was loving it.
They were like the stars of the show, the life of every party.
They were having way too much fun. Getting phone numbers (that turned into dates) and making friends left and right.
At first I thought they must be rich.
Or famous.
Or both.
It turns out I couldn’t have been more wrong.
What I had stumbled upon was a secret community who had learned the secrets of social intelligence. They had mastered the skill of socializing.
Their secret was so powerful that it could turn a pasty nerd like me into someone people loved to be around. I had dates every night of the week, and when I wasn't dating I was meeting up with awesome new people I'd met and making connections.
It changed my life forever.
What exactly changed my life?
I learned the fundamental principles of social intelligence.
A few simple rules that, when used correctly, can unveil the social matrix making you the master of your social fate.
I even wrote a book about it. Maybe you’ve heard of it?
The Game was the first expose on this secret group of young men who had cracked the code of social dynamics.
The book was an instant bestseller and launched an entire industry of dating coaches and wannabe attraction gurus.
At the center of it all was me, the writer of the story, and now the man considered who would be considered the best pick-up artist in the world.
Not only could I talk socially intimidating people and spark a fantastic conversation, I discovered that I could talk to ANYONE.
It was so powerful that I started meeting and hanging out with rock stars, models, actors, business leaders, porn stars, best-selling authors, and a lot of influential people in the media – famous names that we all know.
This wasn’t just about meeting women, although that part was fantastic, and led me to meet and marry the woman of my dreams.
It was about something even bigger. Something that was just as powerful with a woman in a bar as it was with friends in social situations, or with a recruiter at a job interview.
I had discovered the secret to cracking the code of the social matrix.
And it didn’t just change my life; it changed the lives of all of my students as well.